Monday, October 11, 2010

When loathe consumes...



I wouldn't call my workplace 'rosy', but nor would I call it 'horrible'. Having been working there for 12 years, I'd describe it as 'normal' with all its ups and downs, occasional frustration and disappointment, as well as good times. All because the staff is made up of people of various cultural background, experiences and expectations.

When I joined my unit, there were less than ten staff members. We were mostly fresh graduates with very little experiences dealing with life and work. Yet we survived. Those first years were spent building the institution, figuratively speaking. We had to deal with material preparations, admin work like finding and managing part time tutors to teach our students whose number grew every semester, teaching, apart from trying to live an academic life of doing research, presenting and writing the research. Despite all those, never once did I feel that we couldn't do our job. We've been a good team even though we were not perfect. Yes, we made our mistakes but we learned. And moved on...or so I thought.

Never once did I imagine that one fine day someone's past imperfections could be dug up, chronologized (almost) and paraded for the public in the name of loathe. But it happened. Somebody, using the pseudonym, Concerned Citizens, wrote a very venomous letter to the editor in one of the local dailies yesterday, vividly describing the failures of my unit in the year 2000. In short, the insinuation was that the unit staff members were (and still are) self-interested; mostly in making $$$ when they should concentrate on doing their job dedicatedly. No names mentioned, but a lot of little hints given, suggesting that the attack was meant for a certain person of the unit, although very strangely, towards the end of the letter the attack became more bizarre and the failures and names of the top management people were also included.

As I read the letter over and over again, I can only feel pity for the writer. It is obvious to me that the person is consumed by abject loathing. I could almost see venom oozing out of the letter. A person who wrote to the public to list other people's failings from ten years ago could only mean revenge. Perhaps they would never stop till their target, which is to ruin, is achieved. Perhaps the abject loathing is a result of insecurity and inferiority, or jealousy...I say a little prayer for the writer...may love shine in their heart, for when loathe consumes oneself, I imagine life must be a constant misery.

5 comments:

smallkucing on October 12, 2010 at 10:33 AM said...

10 years of loaths..hmm...that is a very long time .

Verone on October 12, 2010 at 8:21 PM said...

very long it's scary...

Anonymous said...

10 years of hate and aversion. How could one live daily with such intense disgust? 'Concerned Citizens' certainly do. If hate makes one thin, 'Concerned Citizens' would be past emaciated. Definitely a pitiful person(s) who - past my shock - I've decided should be given prayers so he/she/they wouldn't end up broken, sad, and small person(s).

In solidarity, Veron.

Verone on October 14, 2010 at 7:17 PM said...

Anon- yes, when one hates, give them love...may they see the light :)

OrangSabah on October 19, 2010 at 2:15 PM said...

That person needs a hug that's all I think.

 

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